Lets be honest.

So there is some drama going on that is useless.
Jenn's birthday is in November and she asked Chris and I if we could get along with a couple of people we dont like for her birthday.
Both of us agreed that since time has passed and feelings have died down that Yes we can deal with these two people and be okay.
We told it would be no problem and we could be civil because we love her and her last 2 birthdays didnt go as planned.
But Jenn keeps bringing up that everyone better get along or she will hate us forever.
At first we assured her, but now its just getting old.
And my thoughts are that I am not being trusted.
Chris is not being trusted to do the right thing and be nice.
This doesnt make us feel good.
How would you like it if one of your Best friends doubted you and thought you would ruin her birthday?
It makes me feel shitty.
I wouldnt do that Jenn but neither would Chris. However Jenn remains doubtful.
LAME.
Why be my friend if you dont trust me to try and make your 21st a good one?
Chris and I have not talked to them in 2 years.
WHY would she think we would start shit?
We havent started shit before, why would we wait for her birthday to start?
We wouldnt. We can be civil but I dont want to try if someone thinks I cant do it.
Its like beating me up for something I havent done.
Its lame. The whole thing is uncalled for.
If she wants her birthday to go well the last thing she should do is make everyone fear messing up.
Keep putting me down and I am not going to try anymore.
Make yourself happy. Cause apparently I cant make you happy.

If you want the original plans to continue rest assure I will be civil. So will Chris.
If you dont trust me then dont be my friend.